Dear girls Beg an objective view from…

Dear girls Beg an objective perspective on my situation And how I think, how should such a situation to behave like husband and wife? 🤔 We with the husband together 7 years, married for 4 years With housing, we helped my mom first bought one, then sold it, invested the inheritance from my grandmother, bought dvushku Husband is younger than me for 3 years (I am 30), did not want children, I do not rush, first settled in the apartment, then in the bedroom, husband decided than he in life interested in doing, was finding myself, both worked But then I started to catch myself thinking that not the point of this life, started to look at children With husband wisely talked He at that time already found a good job, doing repairs, just unofficially, I always try to influence him to become more responsible, more serious year we Planned our baby, were surveyed had health problems, had to leave work, the work was nervous, the room was basic, starting with Windows and ending with the toilet and heating Up to the exchange, got myself Started to look for work, but did not take because “You’re on maternity leave”, etc. in the Spring found out I was pregnant At 10 weeks I received an offer from former employment, but in a normal office And here begins the nuances, which I in a stupor Husband before I was offered a job, he started to process at work from 9 to 21, five days He was not against It is a good idea, because we have credits on the machine, on iPhone husband, for repairs, only a month it is necessary to pay 15 thousand, and this is without communal RFP husband with overtime – 42 thousand Without overtime – 35 thousand before I worked, accumulated debts, insurance, inspection, suspension repairs, brake Right only my husband, My mother, knowing that I was pregnant again offered his assistance She sold all the gold in the house and put the money in the account for the child Because, to be honest, my husband won’t be able to earn right Now about my job, 5/2, from 10 to 19 to get to work and back 1 hour the Whole house for me husband only washes the dishes and small things does what is asked At work regulations: it is impossible to bring heat and that smell, no odor, Therefore, have lunch in the cafe, My position is modest, SN 17 thousand, others receive 2-3 times more relevant to my post, as it was not very good, and remained Their time on lunch hours, I barely allowed 45 minutes, and I’m not About pregnancy there know, once said that officially you will not get Resent when I’m having lunch for longer than 45 minutes, but within an hour In General, do not stand on ceremony with me Also at work I have terrible flatulence, but I’m tied to the workplace, and next to me another 3 people, including a man Has to endure, can not go, but also can not be tolerated toilet near the shed, will be heard if I pull the air 😅 there Plus I need the day, go to bed early with her husband is impossible, late haunting and rattles From what I think, and it I need all this? Stops what debts we have, I understand the mind And that insurance, a car is necessary to do Health suggests otherwise Even promised that after 3 weeks transferred to work on the house, but I don’t believe the organization has long gone from the trust, plus it is profitable And the husband, knowing that I found a job immediately relaxed, want to work less I See that is counting on the money that I earn, although the first RFP, I’m told, on June 25 and delay is the norm with them, But we are family, why the husband can not count on the RFP wife? But why, then, I’m a little bothered by this? On the other hand, the husband complains about his back, the tiredness, he gets very tired To the doctors asking him to go in denial is again, read all the time about men who work hard but don’t take offense to the wives for the Husband, I feel offended by the Baby, which I expect, the most coveted, most beloved, and my husband And I never regret what happened, although I know that financially it will be difficult What would you suggest? About the job? And so, life?

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