Girls,help please,, how to survive a terrible betrayal…

Girls,help please,, how to survive a terrible betrayal by her husband???Married 10 years,son is 9 now and 7 months ago gave birth to a long-awaited daughter!But with this happiness,came the misfortune!!!When daughter was a month,learned about her husband’s betrayal,and not just treason,this betrayal!When I was 17 weeks lying on the conservation, he went with a friend to a club,met a girl 8 years younger than us ,he’s 32,I’m 30,fell in love with her ears!That scored on me,family,and everything, just I certainly never saw it coming,didn’t come home at night,turn off the phone,I’m pregnant all night stood and waited for him, cried,went crazy,suspicions were of course,but that’s it!!!!In General when I learned of course was to kick him out,he started to lie that they have nothing else,but continued to chase her,even tell her what’s between us as husband and wife nothing,we lived for the sake of the child and the second was an accident!!!although we had planned a baby and was the initiator of it!!!All this lasted until we met with his mistress,I told her everything and she told me She left him,and from the house he never left,supposedly all sorry kids,but I thought I would be able to forgive This girl was still living in the neighboring house,he told her the passage is not allowed!She has promised that she will leave the family to marry her was going,to have children in common,in the summer they lived(slept),and me he sent to his parents while doing the repair,ostensibly so I don’t breathe the dust and dirt!!!Well, all this time,from the moment they stopped talking I felt that he was suffering through it,constantly listening to songs that described what a love story was all about this topic,I’ve started to say that he suffers,and he gave me agressiva,shouting,swearing that I’m a fool,imagining and so forth!!!!This continued for 3 months more and I could not resist,I just humiliated feelings and trampled!I gathered the children and went to her parents And recently she wrote to me that my husband wrote to her and wrote that a year has passed since their meeting that he would always remember her ,and all the good things,wished her well,wrote it while we were still at home!As I wrote yesterday to see her to give the phone I wanted,stood under the Windows of her!I wrote him this morning that we just do everything over,he told me that it so cool of him!!!In General,it is such a pain,horrible pain that corrodes my soul and heart!!!!I don’t understand how so??how was he able to do so,as he could exchange family,the children on the other!I just don’t know how to live,kids to me!and Thank God for parents help!But how it is to survive?Maybe someone had a similar situation?As saved?

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